Some women can acept that..................?

You have to be happy with who you are and be able to love yourself so you can love someone else. No one completes you other than in marriage. Then and only then are you being the other half of that union. You need to be able to function as a whole person without the help of anyone else. Being able to handle things without dependency on someone else is very important. That way you can bring much more into a marriage than if you were dependent on another person.